Our Mission

For so long, people wanted to connect while hiding a pending or new divorce but,
really, all that does is add to the chaos.

Here at It’s Just Complicated, you can find judgment-free connections with others going through the same thing so that you can rebuild with confidence.

Relationships During or After Divorce and How to Find Judgement-Free Connections

The thought of connecting when almost single or newly divorced is undoubtedly challenging. It is hard enough to feel chipper when life is just plain chaotic, but when you are going through or just coming out of a divorce in this already hectic kind of world, loneliness approaches like that of a mid-summer night thunderstorm. The howling wind stirs up feelings of abandonment, and rain showers the inevitable growth of insecurity. Depleted accounts and child custody battles rumble on like no tomorrow.

Then lightning strikes. Your best friend asks, “What do you mean you want to connect with someone else on top of what you are already going through?”

You are here because you are feeling misunderstood, but you are not alone. You have found a safe place.

We hope that you will find a connection with someone who can relate to your circumstances.

What We Do – The How and Why

Picture someone lost in the middle of the Grand Canyon. It has been days, maybe even weeks, and he is dying of thirst. It’s Just Complicated is like what ice-cold water would be to that of a lost man in a hot desert.

Here, we quench thirst, and we do it well.

You might be wondering:

•  Is it okay to have relationships during a divorce or right after my divorce is final?

Here at It’s Just Complicated, we feel and understand your pain. We encourage honesty here and already assume you are legally separated, if not divorced already. There is no reason to hide. However, you may wish to speak with your attorney on the appropriate steps to take with what to post or not to post while your divorce is still pending.

• Should I hide the fact that I am going through a divorce or pending divorce?

There is nothing wrong connecting with people going through the same thing. Building a support system with friends going through similar, difficult circumstances helps to strengthen your self-esteem and self-worth.

•  Can I date before my divorce is final?

Those trudging through a pending divorce quickly learn how drawn out of a process it can be. It can sometimes take years to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Although we encourage you to lean on the side of caution, there is nothing wrong with entering into supportive relationships while traveling on this very bumpy road. The process can be beneficial to your emotional well-being.

•  How can I legally date while going through a divorce?


It is always best to take precautions and speak with your attorney before dating while your divorce is pending. Here at It’s Just Complicated, we merely encourage surrounding yourself with supportive people going through similar circumstances so that you can relate to one another and build relationships.

•  Are you a dating site for the divorced or the pending divorced?

Not necessarily. While you may be seeking out the best dating site for the divorced or maybe even trying to figure out if dating someone during a divorce is something you want to consider, we believe that supportive relationships with people struggling through issues like yours can shed light on your dark tunnel.

Be Honest About Dating or Connecting Before or After a Divorce is Final

Dating sites for recently divorced or even pending ones is a tough one – because to put it bluntly – they are hard to find. It is partly due to not many (if any) site catering exclusively to this genre and partly because few want to talk about a real and scary topic: Dating while going through a divorce. That said, we as humans work best when we are relational. Especially when facing life challenges that leave us feeling hopeless. Moving On After Divorce will come in time. Please allow us to help you get there.

Here at It’s Just Complicated, we open our door to you, so you can receive judgment-free hope and support because we can understand and relate.

So, relax. Take a deep breath. Come on in and stay a while.

Please do not hesitate to contact us with any questions or concerns.

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